Preached January 27, 2008 at Longview Missionary Baptist Church
Last summer, Sarah and I went to Marion, Arkansas to visit our friends Mike and Debbie Prince. Mike gave me instructions of the phone. At first, I thought “No problem.” Then he kept going. And going. And going with the directions. Pretty soon, I had no idea where I was going, but that’s OK. Surely if I pretend like I know where I am going, I’ll get there eventually. I mean, Arkansas isn’t that big of a state is it?
After driving 3 times as long as Mike told me it would take to get to his house, Sarah insisted that I call. So I called. Did I write the instructions down? No. Instead we drive around for another 20 minutes.
Sarah, irritated with me finally calls herself and writes the instructions down. In my defense, we drove through some lovely country side and actually the housing division where the Princes live, just not the right street.
Navigating life can be an adventure to say the least. When mariners set out to explore the vast oceans, they depended on the stars for navigation. But with the development of the compass, they were able to navigate even when the sky was overcast or when it was too foggy to see the stars.
The Bible provides a compass for us to help us get our bearings and find the direction we need to take in life.
The father calls on his son to hold on to his teaching for two reasons: 1) They give long life and 2) They give prosperity or success in life.
The wise person will listen for these reasons. A wise person will never stop learning and listening to the wise. Woodrow Wilson: “I not only use all the brains I have, but all I can borrow.”
The father then gives his son a Golden Compass in verses 5-12. I heard Charles Stanley refer to 5-12 as a compass more than 15 years ago, and it has stuck with me ever since.
We often want to know God’s will for our lives. We want to know what God wants us to do and his purpose for us. We want to know his “perfect, divine” will for each and every thing we do.
God has two aspects to his will– The secret aspect that we cannot know and the revealed aspect that we can know. God has revealed his will in Scripture. When we are sensitive to what God has revealed to us, we will remain in the center of his will.
If you follow the four principles in 5-12, you will find yourself exactly where God wants you to be. You do these four things, then when it comes time to make a decision, you won’t have to look for a flashing neon sign in the heavens, or wait for an angel appearing from heaven. You will know what you ought to do.
Like the four points of a compass, here are the four principles:
1. Trust in the Lord (Proverbs 3:5-6)
a. If you try to figure life out on your own, you will get helplessly lost.
b. It is the way of guidance. We don’t always have all the answers, and we certainly don’t know everything. But God does. Trusting in him means getting direction from him.
c. It is the way of humility. To say we don’t know what to do or where to go take humility on our part. We don’t understand, but He understands everything.
d. It is the way of submission. We can’t control circumstances, but God is always in control.
e. “Lean” means to put all your faith and confidence in something. Think of a cane or a walker that helps a person stay on his or her feet. When we lean on our own wisdom, understanding and insight, we will fall. When we lean on God we lean on a solid rock and will never fall.
f. REASON: The result of trusting in the Lord is that he makes our paths straight. In other words, he gives us direction and makes the path passable.
g. Self-dependance is foolishness, rebellion, and ruin. But trusting the Lord leads to wisdom, blessing, and peace.
2. Fear the Lord (Proverbs 3:7-8)
a. We have a humble view of ourselves. We are not wise in our own eyes. We don’t pretend like we have it all figured out.
i. Abigail is learning to be independent. “Let me do it!” But if she can’t, she gets very angry, yet sill refuses to let us help.
ii. Fools say, “Just let me think! I can figure this out on my own if you will give me the time.” The wise have a right view of themselves.
iii. God honors and helps the one who admits he does not have the wisdom he needs and who seeks it from the Lord.
b. The opposite of having an exalted view of ourselves is having an exalted view of God. So instead, We have a reverent view of God.
c. When we see ourselves in a humble light, and exalt God the way he should be exalted, we will develop a hatred of evil.
Charles Bridges said: “Where God is honored, sin is hated, loathed and resisted.”
d. When we fear the Lord and turn away from sin and evil, we are well on our way to doing what God wants us to do.
e. REASON: The promise here is that we will have health. It is well documented that there is a correlation between physical health and mental health. The Bible talks about Spiritual health having a bearing on physical health as well.
i. See Psalm 32:1-5 “…when I kept silent, my bones wasted away…”
ii. 3 John 2 (ESV) Beloved, I pray that all may go well with you and that you may be in good health, as it goes well with your soul.
iii. This is pretty common sense. You avoid sinful actions and habits, you will generally be healthier. How healthy can it be to be a drug dealer? Or to be an embezzler?
3. Honor the Lord (Proverbs 3:9-10)
a. In Proverbs, money and material possessions are seen as a double edged sword.
i. On one hand, it is a blessing to have money and possessions.
ii. On the other hand, they can be a great curse.
b. The key is to honor God with all we have so that our possessions do not possess us.
c. When we honor God with our possessions, we give him the first fruits. “We honor God when he gets the first check written after the deposit is made. We honor God when we calculate our giving off the gross rather than the net.”
d. Giving is an act of faith.
i. When we give, we begin to see that it all belongs to God.
ii. We live as stewards. It’s not ours. It is God’s. We’ve simply been charged to care for it.
iii. We start putting his kingdom first.
e. RESULT: The Lord blesses us even more.
4. Listen to the Lord (Proverbs 3:11-12)
a. Discipline is not no fun, but it is a loving action, not a sign of divine displeasure. The Lord disciplines his children! If you are not his child, he won’t discipline you. The goal of discipline is to get us to live God’s way.
b. How not to react to the Lord’s discipline:
i. Under-react– Viewing the Lord’s discipline as no big deal and not worth worrying about.
ii. Over-reacting– Getting angry and resenting the Lord.
c. How to react– by learning the lesson he is trying to teach us.
d. RESULT: We realize God loves us when he disciplines us. He is our Father.
Conclusion
When we hold all four of these principles in balance, we will find the center of God’s will for our lives. If you do these things, you will not go wrong in life.